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What to do if you breakdown in your car!

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April 4, 2016

salvage valueLast week I broke down on the side of a busy ‘A’ road and I have to admit it was one of the scariest experiences of my life as the car literally shook as lorries thundered past. I am just thankful that my common sense kicked in and I got the kids out of the car and put them high up on the bank, out-of-the-way of danger as I later found out from a police officer that hundreds of people die each year by staying in their car and it getting hit.
After posting about my car breaking down I had lots of comments with people saying that they would not know what to do if it happened to them, so here is my advice:

  • Before you go anywhere in your car, ensure your breakdown cover telephone number is in your car, stored in your phone, or the app is installed on your phone.
  • Keep any emergency equipment on the passenger side of the car e.g blankets, first aid kit, telephone numbers as it is easier to get to.
  • Know where your spare tyre and tow bar are kept.
  • If you don’t manage to breakdown somewhere safe, like a lay-by, put your hazard lights on, get onto the hard shoulder a safely as possible and get you and your passengers out and away from the car using the passenger side, even in bad weather and get behind the barrier or retreat up the bank.
  • Pay attention to road signs as you drive so you know roughly where you are. I had ‘no service’ on my phone and had to dial 999 and had to guess where I was as I couldn’t see any road markers. Many roads do now have driver location signs to identify where you are and the Recovery Call Centre can track your mobile phone for a location now too.
  • If you don’t have a mobile walk to an emergency telephone on your side of the carriageway – never attempt to cross the carriageway. Follow the arrows on the posts at the back of the hard shoulder – the phone is free and connects directly to the police/Highways Agency. Give full details to the police and tell them if you are a vulnerable motorist, such as a woman travelling alone or have young children with you.
  • Be prepared to wait – my recovery driver took an hour and we were classed as ‘unsafe’.

I have to admit it was a scary time. Kids will be kids and they were soon jumping around, moaning they were cold and had no sense of danger, so I had to be quite firm with them and distracted them with playing games that kept them still. When the recovery van arrived we had to remain on the bank whilst the driver had to search for the bar to tow the car (I had no idea where it was) and I loaded the kids back into the car so we could be towed to the next lay by where he could look at the car properly.
Car Breakdown
Although I was given instructions on how to be towed, it was an experience I never want to repeat as I felt so out of control of the car. My normal power steering didn’t work, the brakes were really hard to operate and I felt far too close to the van in front. It did get us to the safety of a lay by where they could look at my car safely.
The only other issue I had were the car seats as mine are isofix and they could not be fitted in the cab of the recovery truck, which wasn’t ideal. Thankfully Eliza’s was able to convert to just using a seatbelt so Sebastian went in there, Eliza took the booster and Isaac, as the eldest, had to sit in the normal seat.
Breakdown
It wasn’t an experience I want to repeat but this adventure is the one thing about the Easter holidays that the kids are going to remember forever!
For more advice on what to do when you breakdown, the AA have some excellent tips and if like me your car isn’t repairable, get a salvage value for your car here.

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    Sabina @MummyMatters

    April 4, 2016

    Touch wood *touches bedside drawers* I haven’t broken down with my kids in the car but I have broken down before when alone and that was scary enough. I always carry an emergency kit in the boot of my car on the passenger side with a warning triangle, torch, blankets and tyre pump etc but I definitely need to find my breakdown cover details to keep in the car. They aren’t much use at home after all ???? so pleased you are all safe though x

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    Clare aka Emmy's Mummy

    April 4, 2016

    You did very well to remain calm, it’s bad enough breaking down but with kids too is just the worst.

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    Mookie Moo

    April 4, 2016

    These are really good ideas for any parent. And also some that doesn’t have small kids anymore like myself too. 🙂 Great read. 🙂
    Mookieslife 

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    Jen

    April 4, 2016

    What fab tips. I think we all need to remember them in case of emergencies. I know what you mean about being towed, it is such a weird feeling!

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    Anne

    April 4, 2016

    I’ve been towed once and I hated it too, so scary! I’ve also broken down a few times, once in rush hour on a very busy road, made worse as the car just ‘died’ and I was in the second lane. Some burly blokes managed to push my car somewhere safer until help arrived. Another time I was on a motorway and the car ‘felt’ weird like it was losing power. I was close to a service station so I drove into the car park and literally rolled into the nearest parking space as my engine died. How lucky was that!

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    Stephs Two Girls

    April 4, 2016

    It’s so good to be reminded of what to do – and getting out of the car is so important, even if it’s lashing down and blowing a gale. Much better than being in an accident. Glad you got home safely x

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    Rachel

    April 4, 2016

    This is such an amazing post and so many amazing pointers to remember x

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    lisa prince

    April 4, 2016

    this has to b my worst fear especially with the kids and we are now going to be travelling with a folding camper which i fear even more , thanks for this hun xx

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    Cathy ( MummyTravels )

    April 4, 2016

    Great tips – that does sound really scary. I think apart from calling the AA and my husband, I’m not sure what I’d do either.

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    JuggleMum, Nadine Hill

    April 4, 2016

    What a nightmare! You coped brilliantly and your social sharing of this event actually helped me as it made me check my breakdown cover policy so thank you for that. As bloggers, even our worst days can be put to good use when we create a helpful blog post out of them!

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    Jenni

    April 4, 2016

    These are fab tips, I have breakdown cover but I don’t have the name of the company or the phone number in the car. Will definitely be getting organised x

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    Jess @ Catch A Single Thought

    April 5, 2016

    Goodness what a nightmare. Well done for keeping your cool and not panicking. Great tips as well, I definitely need to implement some of these.

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    Claire

    April 5, 2016

    Oh wow, what a horrible and scary experience 🙁 Especially with the children.
    Great tips 🙂

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    Anita Burr

    April 5, 2016

    Oh my goodness, well done on remaining calm. Such great tips here too.

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    Sonya Cisco

    April 6, 2016

    Oh gosh I had considered all the advice about moving away from the vehicle to a safe point etc but had never thought about car seats – glad you managed to sort something out!

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    Baby Isabella

    April 6, 2016

    Some great advice, learnt from experience! Glad you guys are ok! We’ll be checking our breakdown cover!

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    John Milnes

    April 6, 2016

    I have had a few breakdowns in my time and luckily the vehicle I was driving was cover by Either the AA or the RAC. Luckily the car we have now is a mobility car and they are all covered by the RAC.
    My late father was an HGV driver and taught me from a young age what to do in the event of an eventuality on the side of the motorway. I know all major M carriageways have roadside phones every 100 metres. Not all A (Dual carriageways) have roadside phones have emergency phones. Did you know at all the phones on the motorway are all linked to a motorway Police station along that route somewhere? You will be surprised to learn they are.
    I am thankful that my dad did teach me all those years ago what to do. I just wish the Gov had regular tv adverts about what to do what when it happens to you. I know some countries in the EU like France and Italy, make it mandatory for every driver/car to have some sort of triangular warning sign in the back of their car when they breakdown. In fact, if you ever take your car across to the EU, you have to have one with you. This is one Law that I don’t mind having from the EU.
    Great post thank you for sharing.

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    John Milnes

    April 6, 2016

    I have had a few breakdowns in my time and luckily the vehicle I was driving was cover by Either the AA or the RAC. Luckily the car we have now is a mobility car and they are all covered by the RAC.
    My late father was an HGV driver and taught me from a young age what to do in the event of an eventuality on the side of the motorway. I know all major M carriageways have roadside phones every 100 metres. Not all A (Dual carriageways) have roadside phones have emergency phones. Did you know at all the phones on the motorway are all linked to a motorway Police station along that route somewhere? You will be surprised to learn they are.
    I am thankful that my dad did teach me all those years ago what to do. I just wish the Gov had regular tv adverts about what to do what when it happens to you. I know some countries in the EU like France and Italy, make it mandatory for every driver/car to have some sort of triangular warning sign in the back of their car when they breakdown. In fact, if you ever take your car across to the EU, you have to have one with you. This is one Law that I don’t mind having from the EU.
    Great post thank you for sharing.
    John

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    Idaintyit

    April 6, 2016

    There is nothing worse than breaking down, they take ages don’t they! Some good tips

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    angela hamilton

    April 8, 2016

    oh no what a nightmare for you 🙁 looks like the kids thought it was a great adventure

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    Charly Dove

    April 22, 2016

    Really great tips Kara, that’s a horrible situation to be in. Take it the car didn’t make it? Our car isn’t happy at the moment but has a shiny new turbo in it as that went a year or so ago. Still scared from the experience. Met 3 people from the AA who were amazing and thankful I was on my own – on that occasion anyway!

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    tthomas02030

    April 26, 2024

    I read your post regarding taxi service Axminster and it’s informational content for all users. Thanks for sharing this.

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Are we nearly there yet? is a new online blog run by me, Kara Guppy, and is named as such thanks to my daughter Eliza who always asks that very question when we are less than 5 minutes up the road heading off on our adventures. You may know me from my other family blog chelseamamma.co.uk